Comments on: Ky. man charged with fathering child by daughter http://bluegrassbeat.bloginky.com/2009/03/12/ky-man-charged-with-fathering-child-by-daughter/ Police and courts in the Lexington, Ky., area Sun, 22 Nov 2009 00:25:14 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.5 By: randal http://bluegrassbeat.bloginky.com/2009/03/12/ky-man-charged-with-fathering-child-by-daughter/#comment-1818 randal Fri, 13 Mar 2009 18:03:24 +0000 http://bluegrassbeat.bloginky.com/?p=2455#comment-1818 I guess no one really knows the whole story. I was married at 19 to a young lady and knew something was wrong. We had been married for about 10 years before she finally told me the truth. She had been molested by her father from the time she was so small she couldn't remember when it started, he stopped when she started her periods at around 15. Why? I ask didn't you tell. She didn't want to tear up their home. Needless to say this pervert not only destroyed his daughter's life, but affected mine as her husband and our childrend because of the mood swings and all that went with it. She started having an affair with some of the lowest scum in the neighborhood, made my life miserable, I stayed with her until children was grown and couldn't take it anymore. She never knows why of anything. I wonder if they whys could be answered because she was taken advantage of by someone that should have been cuddling her, nurturing her and doing all the things a loving father should do. I think her mother was partly responsbile because I think she knew and let it go on to keep from having to be fooled with the bastard herself. When the father died, I saw her cry at his funeral. She said you love your father know matter what they did to you. Adults quit using innocent little children for an outlet. There are too many men and women willing to give it away out there than to have to destroy a child's life. People like this should be hung on the courthouse square. Their not sick in my book, their demon possed and hell is too good for them. After they wreck the kids lives, many of them turn to God for salvation. Sometimes I want to question God and ask Him if this is even fair. I guess no one really knows the whole story. I was married at 19 to a young lady and knew something was wrong. We had been married for about 10 years before she finally told me the truth. She had been molested by her father from the time she was so small she couldn’t remember when it started, he stopped when she started her periods at around 15. Why? I ask didn’t you tell. She didn’t want to tear up their home. Needless to say this pervert not only destroyed his daughter’s life, but affected mine as her husband and our childrend because of the mood swings and all that went with it. She started having an affair with some of the lowest scum in the neighborhood, made my life miserable, I stayed with her until children was grown and couldn’t take it anymore. She never knows why of anything. I wonder if they whys could be answered because she was taken advantage of by someone that should have been cuddling her, nurturing her and doing all the things a loving father should do. I think her mother was partly responsbile because I think she knew and let it go on to keep from having to be fooled with the bastard herself. When the father died, I saw her cry at his funeral. She said you love your father know matter what they did to you. Adults quit using innocent little children for an outlet. There are too many men and women willing to give it away out there than to have to destroy a child’s life. People like this should be hung on the courthouse square. Their not sick in my book, their demon possed and hell is too good for them. After they wreck the kids lives, many of them turn to God for salvation. Sometimes I want to question God and ask Him if this is even fair.

]]> By: Mark Taylor http://bluegrassbeat.bloginky.com/2009/03/12/ky-man-charged-with-fathering-child-by-daughter/#comment-1814 Mark Taylor Fri, 13 Mar 2009 11:37:27 +0000 http://bluegrassbeat.bloginky.com/?p=2455#comment-1814 I wonder why she didn't come forward when she was 13? I also have to wonder what the statute of limitations are? A 20 year old crime! He should've prosecuted years ago! Only in KY would this happen! I never hear of this happening in other states! I wonder why she didn’t come forward when she was 13? I also have to wonder what the statute of limitations are? A 20 year old crime! He should’ve prosecuted years ago!

Only in KY would this happen! I never hear of this happening in other states!

]]> By: Beth Hendricks http://bluegrassbeat.bloginky.com/2009/03/12/ky-man-charged-with-fathering-child-by-daughter/#comment-1808 Beth Hendricks Fri, 13 Mar 2009 07:33:49 +0000 http://bluegrassbeat.bloginky.com/?p=2455#comment-1808 I saw some of the other postings and had to add more in, sorry. Patterns that are established in childhood sometimes cannot be broken easily. I am sure she knew tht the relationship was abnormal, but who wants their Dad to go to jail if they tell? It is more complicated that most people realize. It is not an easy decision to know that your Dad, who on one level, society tells you that you should love and trust is taking advantage of you in private. Poeple can say what they want, but sexual abuse is something that is burned into your soul, especially when that abuse is dished out by someone who is supposed to be your hero in life. He is the one that others should be asking....was he mentally challenged or what? taking advantage of his own daughter like that!! People.....why blame her for not telling? He should be the one looked upon with a critical eye for manipulating her for his own selfish agenda. What was going on in HIS mind? At 13, 30 or 40, she isnt to blame...he is. He established a pattern early on and she was unable to escape it until now. Again I say, GOOD FOR HER and SHAME ON HIM! I saw some of the other postings and had to add more in, sorry. Patterns that are established in childhood sometimes cannot be broken easily. I am sure she knew tht the relationship was abnormal, but who wants their Dad to go to jail if they tell? It is more complicated that most people realize. It is not an easy decision to know that your Dad, who on one level, society tells you that you should love and trust is taking advantage of you in private. Poeple can say what they want, but sexual abuse is something that is burned into your soul, especially when that abuse is dished out by someone who is supposed to be your hero in life. He is the one that others should be asking….was he mentally challenged or what? taking advantage of his own daughter like that!! People…..why blame her for not telling? He should be the one looked upon with a critical eye for manipulating her for his own selfish agenda. What was going on in HIS mind? At 13, 30 or 40, she isnt to blame…he is. He established a pattern early on and she was unable to escape it until now. Again I say, GOOD FOR HER and SHAME ON HIM!

]]> By: just me http://bluegrassbeat.bloginky.com/2009/03/12/ky-man-charged-with-fathering-child-by-daughter/#comment-1806 just me Fri, 13 Mar 2009 06:04:06 +0000 http://bluegrassbeat.bloginky.com/?p=2455#comment-1806 THAT CRAP GOES ON WORLD WIDE DUNNIES, ANYONE THAT THINKS IT'S ONLY IN KY ARE AS DUMB AS THE ONES THAT DO IT !!! RICH AND FAMOUS DO IT ALL THE TIME.. NASTY BUNCH OF DECOMPOSTION FOR HUMAN WATSE THAT CRAP GOES ON WORLD WIDE DUNNIES, ANYONE THAT THINKS IT’S ONLY IN KY ARE AS DUMB AS THE ONES THAT DO IT !!! RICH AND FAMOUS DO IT ALL THE TIME.. NASTY BUNCH OF DECOMPOSTION FOR HUMAN WATSE

]]> By: just me http://bluegrassbeat.bloginky.com/2009/03/12/ky-man-charged-with-fathering-child-by-daughter/#comment-1805 just me Fri, 13 Mar 2009 06:01:56 +0000 http://bluegrassbeat.bloginky.com/?p=2455#comment-1805 NASTY @#$#%@'S ANYWHERE THAT IS LOW ENOUGH TO INCESTUATE THERE OWN FAMILIE'S .. ANIMALS ARENT AS NASTY AND EVIL MINDED,, CONTROL THEM BY PUTTING THE ONES THAT THINK THATS A WAY OF LIFE IN THE OCEAN WITH THEIR LIMBS DISMEMEBERED AND TIED TO THEIR REMAINING SCUM OF FLESH THATS LEFT. NASTY @#$#%@’S ANYWHERE THAT IS LOW ENOUGH TO INCESTUATE THERE OWN FAMILIE’S .. ANIMALS ARENT AS NASTY AND EVIL MINDED,, CONTROL THEM BY PUTTING THE ONES THAT THINK THATS A WAY OF LIFE IN THE OCEAN WITH THEIR LIMBS DISMEMEBERED AND TIED TO THEIR REMAINING SCUM OF FLESH THATS LEFT.

]]> By: A Kentucky Mom http://bluegrassbeat.bloginky.com/2009/03/12/ky-man-charged-with-fathering-child-by-daughter/#comment-1804 A Kentucky Mom Fri, 13 Mar 2009 04:46:08 +0000 http://bluegrassbeat.bloginky.com/?p=2455#comment-1804 Jon Nealis, I abhor your negativity in connecting incest in just Kentucky. It is a horrible problem that covers many other places and socioeconomic stratas. Jon Nealis, I abhor your negativity in connecting incest in just Kentucky. It is a horrible problem that covers many other places and socioeconomic stratas.

]]> By: karinasmom http://bluegrassbeat.bloginky.com/2009/03/12/ky-man-charged-with-fathering-child-by-daughter/#comment-1797 karinasmom Thu, 12 Mar 2009 15:38:01 +0000 http://bluegrassbeat.bloginky.com/?p=2455#comment-1797 It's not like the article says she was showing up at free will. Maybe he was showing up at her house and raping her. We have no idea of the details. Don't blame the victim. It’s not like the article says she was showing up at free will. Maybe he was showing up at her house and raping her. We have no idea of the details. Don’t blame the victim.

]]> By: jeff oliver http://bluegrassbeat.bloginky.com/2009/03/12/ky-man-charged-with-fathering-child-by-daughter/#comment-1796 jeff oliver Thu, 12 Mar 2009 14:14:20 +0000 http://bluegrassbeat.bloginky.com/?p=2455#comment-1796 Oh come on, IF this woman is not a disbled/mentally challenged person whom cannot help herself then she is somewhat to blame, did she not attend public school? interact with her peers? watch tv? Where was the mother/siblings? That just ain't normal! Their are so many questions that need to be explored in this case, I suspect some family members may be knowing a few things they hid? Yes at 13 she may not have suspected this was sort of odd but at 25? I understand fear as have spending the last 23 years of my life in the criminal justice field, but anyone who advocates this behavior is just as guilty. Pray for this whole family. Oh come on, IF this woman is not a disbled/mentally challenged person whom cannot help herself then she is somewhat to blame, did she not attend public school? interact with her peers? watch tv? Where was the mother/siblings? That just ain’t normal! Their are so many questions that need to be explored in this case, I suspect some family members may be knowing a few things they hid? Yes at 13 she may not have suspected this was sort of odd but at 25? I understand fear as have spending the last 23 years of my life in the criminal justice field, but anyone who advocates this behavior is just as guilty. Pray for this whole family.

]]> By: Monica Hess http://bluegrassbeat.bloginky.com/2009/03/12/ky-man-charged-with-fathering-child-by-daughter/#comment-1795 Monica Hess Thu, 12 Mar 2009 13:00:13 +0000 http://bluegrassbeat.bloginky.com/?p=2455#comment-1795 Sadly, this is way too common. Social services has huge files on some families where incest is an ongoing crime. It's been hard to get the children to testify against the criminals, but now with DNA matching, maybe more of these animals can be put in jail. Sadly, this is way too common. Social services has huge files on some families where incest is an ongoing crime. It’s been hard to get the children to testify against the criminals, but now with DNA matching, maybe more of these animals can be put in jail.

]]> By: Jen http://bluegrassbeat.bloginky.com/2009/03/12/ky-man-charged-with-fathering-child-by-daughter/#comment-1793 Jen Thu, 12 Mar 2009 12:27:59 +0000 http://bluegrassbeat.bloginky.com/?p=2455#comment-1793 I agree. At age 13, she was probably scared or maybe even at 20 yrs of age. He could have threatened her life or anything. We dont know the whole story. But dont blame the victim. I agree. At age 13, she was probably scared or maybe even at 20 yrs of age. He could have threatened her life or anything. We dont know the whole story. But dont blame the victim.

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